Husband doesnt want me to meet up with old friends. I feel isolated. Help?

I'm a 38yr old fmale and my marriage aint goin so well. I'm married to my current husband just 4 months and i think i've made a huge mistake. You see, i grew up in the tough part of town. Think council estates and chips n butties for tea. My husbands from the home counties and reared amongst the rolling country hills, and meadows full of buttercups. He was perfect husband material. Particularly after finally divorcing a deadbeat from my side of the tracks. Now i'm learning each type of guy has their down sides. My husband dont drink, dont smoke, dont like noisy bars. Me, i hardly know when to stop drinking, smoking and i'm most at home on the high stool cradling a drink, nector of the Gods. Look, my husbands trying to turn me into a suburban bore. Hes come with a readymade supply of tea dress wearing , yummy mummy housewives. Their wildest adventure is a 4 hour work out in the local gym. If they 'get tipsy' its by accident. So i've got back in touch with old friends. One in particular, hes 'more' than and 'old friend'. Ok, hes a bad boy. He never has money, hes always in trouble with the law, but hes my pal and i aint givin him up to live this life thats causing me to wither like a leaf in the autumn frost. My husbands just arrived back to find his wine cellar raided and us lying down in the bedroom listening to bob marley. hes now all huffy. Whats his problem.